The relationship you want starts with how you’re dating now. I’ll show you how to date differently.
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If your love life feels stuck, it’s not because you’re doing it wrong.
Most of us date on autopilot - repeating old patterns, ignoring red flags or compromising on what we truly need. These habits, beliefs and ways of showing up often run below our awareness, keeping us stuck in the same cycles.
In fact, around 95% of our behaviour is unconscious, so it’s no wonder it can feel like nothing is changing.
But here’s the thing: feeling stuck is not the end of your journey. It’s a sign that something inside of you is ready for change.
And when you listen to that call, it can become the beginning of a powerful new chapter - one where you stop repeating old patterns and start attracting partners who are secure, available and ready to love you in the way you deserve.
That’s where Wholehearted Dating comes in. For the past 12 years, I’ve been helping women bring unconscious patterns into awareness, date differently and create relationships that feel safe, fulfilling and fully aligned with who they are.
And now, I can’t wait to help you.
Ready to take the first step towards the healthy, committed relationship you’re longing for?
Hello, I’m Vicki!
LOVE, DATING AND RELATIONSHIP COACH BASED IN LONDON.
I’m a Love, Dating and Relationship Coach, an NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) Practitioner, EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) Practitioner, Attachment Styles expert and the former Dating and Relationship Expert for Match.com.
Over the past 12 years, I’ve helped more than 1,000 big-hearted women to change the way they date so they can create the healthy and committed relationship they deserve.
Working with Vicki was one of the best things I have done for myself.
“Vicki taught me how to visualise, trust and work towards a future I have always wanted. When things get tricky, I revert back to the hours of sessions we had, as well as the techniques that she taught me. I came away from the programme feeling more in control of my emotions and what I need to make myself happy.
I gained an insight into my own happiness and realised the importance of confidence and self love. I've learnt to back myself, set boundaries, and go after what I deserve.
And I’m now in the happiest, healthiest relationship I’ve probably ever had!”
— Jessica Kidd (former client)
“Coaching has restored my belief that I can work through my anxiety and find a partner I deserve”.
Glamour magazine.
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"Vicki Pavitt is a warm hug personified, full of love, positive energy and inspiration. She's a leading authority on helping women to find love"
Chloe Brotheridge | Hypnotherapist, coach and bestselling author of ‘The Anxiety Solution’.
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"Vicki is a wise, kind and loving presence. Her approach is not ‘do these five things to make him love you’ but a much more valuable approach of helping us to see the ways we block love and why we might do that and then, in time, how we might be more open to love … even if it comes in unexpected forms. Her approach is practical and gentle and always puts us - not the potential partner - at the heart of things. I had a coaching session with her and came out with realisations I had not had before about the people I do and don’t go for. It was illuminating and I would recommend her work to anyone looking for love" .
Marianne Power | Writer and bestselling author of ‘Help Me!: One Woman's Quest to Find Out if Self-Help Really Can Change Her Life’
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“Vicki Pavitt is the person you want to walk alongside you while you are looking for love. She’s trustworthy, warm and most importantly, she knows what she is talking about.”
Dr Soph | Psychologist and bestselling author of 'A Manual For Being Human'
