The relationship you want starts with how you’re dating now,. I’ll show you how to date differently.
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If your love life feels like the one part of your life that just doesn’t flow - you’re not alone.
You’ve built a career that you’re proud of, cultivated deep friendships and invested in your personal growth. But when it comes to dating, you keep finding yourself stuck in the same old cycles: mixed signals, situationships and unavailable partners who can’t meet you fully.
It’s not that you’re not enough. It’s that old patterns are running the show and having you date in a way that blocks the love you want.
I’m here to help you heal those blocks and date with confidence so you can choose the right partner and finally feel safe, loved and fulfilled in the relationship you’ve always wanted.
Here’s how I can help:
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Free weekly
Sunday Love Letter
Every Sunday (ish!), I share personal stories, lessons, musings and resources (inc journalling prompts) on all things love, dating, relationships and self love. My intention is to spark a little bit of joy and connection in your inbox each Sunday evening. Sign up here and you’ll start receiving my letters every Sunday!
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Learn about your
Attachment style
In discovering where you sit on the attachment spectrum, you can gain valuable insights into your romantic patterns, triggers and areas for growth. Take my free quiz today and discover your Attachment style and I’ll also send you my free Attachment Styles Guide!
Click here to find out more.
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Join my 6 month 1:1
Love Coaching Programme
Work with me 1:1 and have me as your personal Love, Dating and Relationship coach for 6 months - supporting you and encouraging you as you go on dates, positively challenging you and lovingly guiding you to a healthy and loving relationship. I work with a handful of clients each year. Click here to explore.
Ready to take the first step towards the healthy, committed relationship you’re longing for?
Hello, I’m Vicki!
LOVE, DATING AND RELATIONSHIP COACH BASED IN LONDON.
I’m a Love, Dating and Relationship Coach, an NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) Practitioner, EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) Practitioner, Attachment Styles expert and the former Dating and Relationship Expert for Match.com.
Over the past 12 years, I’ve helped more than 1,000 big-hearted women to change the way they date so they can create the healthy and committed relationship they deserve.
And now I can’t wait to help you!
Working with Vicki was one of the best things I have done for myself.
“Vicki taught me how to visualise, trust and work towards a future I have always wanted. When things get tricky, I revert back to the hours of sessions we had, as well as the techniques that she taught me. I came away from the programme feeling more in control of my emotions and what I need to make myself happy.
I gained an insight into my own happiness and realised the importance of confidence and self love. I've learnt to back myself, set boundaries, and go after what I deserve.
And I’m now in the happiest, healthiest relationship I’ve probably ever had!”
— Jessica Kidd (former client)
“Coaching has restored my belief that I can work through my anxiety and find a partner I deserve”.
Glamour magazine.
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"Vicki Pavitt is a warm hug personified, full of love, positive energy and inspiration. She's a leading authority on helping women to find love"
Chloe Brotheridge | Hypnotherapist, coach and bestselling author of ‘The Anxiety Solution’.
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"Vicki is a wise, kind and loving presence. Her approach is not ‘do these five things to make him love you’ but a much more valuable approach of helping us to see the ways we block love and why we might do that and then, in time, how we might be more open to love … even if it comes in unexpected forms. Her approach is practical and gentle and always puts us - not the potential partner - at the heart of things. I had a coaching session with her and came out with realisations I had not had before about the people I do and don’t go for. It was illuminating and I would recommend her work to anyone looking for love" .
Marianne Power | Writer and bestselling author of ‘Help Me!: One Woman's Quest to Find Out if Self-Help Really Can Change Her Life’
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“Vicki Pavitt is the person you want to walk alongside you while you are looking for love. She’s trustworthy, warm and most importantly, she knows what she is talking about.”
Dr Soph | Psychologist and bestselling author of 'A Manual For Being Human'
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